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June 26, 2026

Breaker

“A circuit breaker for friendships. Three unanswered texts in a row and the breaker trips — you physically cannot reach out for 30 days. Half-open period: one cautious ‘hey.’ If she replies, closed. If not, another month. Your dignity is the fault tolerance.”

The Problem

You sent the “we should grab coffee” text on May 4th. No reply. You sent it casually on June 1st. No reply. You sent it on July 12th with a meme, like a peace offering. No reply. Today is September. Your thumb is moving on its own. Your brain is observing from a balcony. The system is hammering a downstream service that is, by every indication, offline.

The Solution

A state machine between your fingers and Messages. Three failures in a 90-day window and the breaker opens. Sending is disabled in the UI. After 30 days, the breaker enters half-openand ships one (1) probe. Reply → closed. Silence → another 30 days. Eventually, mercifully, never.

BREAKER · state machine · per-contact
contact: jenna
CLOSED
texts flow
trust intact
OPEN
30-day cooldown
send disabled
HALF-OPEN
one probe
wait & see
3 fails / 90d
30d elapsed
probe → reply
jenna: OPEN since 08/14next probe: 09/13 · 17d

Live Board

Your contacts, classified. The breaker is brutal but consistent. Hover (in your head) for the read receipts you were never sent.

contact
state
cooldown
jenna (the one from college)
OPEN
17d left
marcus (we got coffee in 2022)
OPEN
27d left
your cousin who DJs
HALF-OPEN
probe sent
the group chat
CLOSED
your therapist
CLOSED
guy from improv class
OPEN
4d left
your ex (don’t)
PERMANENT
never

Failure Thresholds

Tune to taste. The defaults assume you have, generously, the patience of a normal adult.

FORGIVING
5 fails / 60dFor your mother. The breaker has, frankly, never tripped.
STANDARD
3 fails / 90dDefault. You will lose ~2 acquaintances per year. They will not notice.
DECISIVE
2 fails / 30dRecommended after a birthday party they didn’t come to.
PETTY
1 fail / 7dTrips before they finish typing. Use sparingly; ships with shame.

Pricing

Solo
personal
$6 / mo
Up to 200 contacts. Probe scheduler, cooldown timers, one (1) manual override per quarter you will deeply regret.
Drama
most popular
$14 / mo
Includes blast radius mode: tripping one breaker also trips all of their mutuals for 14 days. Group chat hygiene at scale.
Family
enterprise
$39 / mo
Up to 6 emotionally entangled adults. Forgiving thresholds enforced on parents. Cousin tier inherits.

TAM

Unreciprocated texts sent globally per year (est.)
4.6B adults × 2 dying friendships × 7 retries
= 64B doomed pings
Of which we estimate 9B are just “hey stranger.”

The Ask

$4M seed. Builds the on-device breaker, the probe scheduler, and a lockscreen widget that gently displays the number of days remaining next to her name. Two engineers, one product designer, and an ethicist who keeps asking us to please reconsider.

Series A pitch:“We’re Hystrix for the people you used to know.”